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Poor communication is one of the most common reasons couples seek therapy. In this article, we explore the key "red flags" in communication, based on renowned psychologist Dr. John Gottman’s research, including the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. We’ll also share how couples therapy can help address these patterns and build stronger, healthier relationships. If you’re seeking couples therapy in Markham or Vaughan, our team at Your Story Counselling is here to help.

Attachment theory explains how our early relationships shape the way we connect with others as adults. Whether you struggle with trust, intimacy, or emotional regulation, understanding your attachment style can offer powerful insights. Therapy focused on attachment helps heal relational wounds and build healthier connections. At Your Story Counselling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy to support your unique attachment journey.

Your Story Counselling, a trauma-informed and culturally responsive psychotherapy clinic serving York Region and beyond, has been recognized on the national stage. Named a finalist in the 2024 RBC Canadian Women Entrepreneur Awards under the Micro-Business category, the clinic’s work in building accessible, affirming, and anti-oppressive mental health care is gaining long-overdue recognition. Learn how Your Story Counselling is changing how therapy is delivered—one story at a

Not sure whether to book an in-person or online therapy session? You're not alone. The choice between virtual and in-office therapy depends on your comfort, access, and clinical needs. This article breaks down the benefits of each approach—and explains why choosing a local clinic like Your Story Counselling means you don’t have to choose just one.

Finding an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in York Region is essential for members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community seeking mental health care that is safe, inclusive, and culturally competent. This guide highlights how to find affirming clinicians, the values of Your Story Counselling’s anti-oppressive stance, and where to find community support through organizations like Rainbow Health Ontario, ACAS, AQUA, and Pflag York Region.

Motor vehicle accidents (MVAs) can change your life in a split second—leaving not only physical injuries but also emotional trauma. In Ontario, those affected by MVAs may be eligible for mental health support under the Health Claims for Auto Insurance (HCAI) system. This explains what an MVA is, how HCAI works, and how therapy can support you through recovery. Your Story Counselling is an HCAI-approved provider and ready to help you navigate the psychological impact of an acc

Can ChatGPT Be Your Therapist? Let's get this out of the way first: ChatGPT is not a therapist. It can't diagnose, hold space for trauma, or build a trusting relationship in the same way a trained clinician can. That said, AI, like ChatGPT, can be a valuable tool for self-help, mainly when used mindfully and ethically (not to mention the ecological and environmental consequences our world faces for utilizing AI).

What Is Self-Compassion? Self-compassion is the act of treating yourself with the same kindness, support, and patience that you’d offer a friend. It’s especially important when life gets tough—whether you're navigating failure, emotional pain, or inner struggle.

Spring is the season of renewal—and what better time to take a deep breath, check in with yourself, and prioritize self-care? Contrary to popular belief, self-care doesn't have to be expensive. In fact, some of the most effective practices for your mental well-being are low-cost, accessible, and deeply nourishing. Here are three budget-friendly self-care ideas to help you bloom this season—plus a bonus one that could transform your emotional health long-term.

The sun is shining, the patios are open, and social calendars are filling up—but if you’re still feeling low, unmotivated, or disconnected, you’re not alone. Despite what the weather and social media might suggest, not everyone feels their best in summer. If you've been thinking, “Shouldn’t I be happier right now?”—this article is for you. Sometimes, what we need isn't a vacation or a weekend away. Sometimes, it's something deeper: reflection, healing, and meaningful emotion

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) is intense emotional pain from rejection. Learn how it impacts well-being & ways to navigate it with the

Start your New Year with intention! Learn how therapy helps set realistic goals, overcome obstacles, and create lasting change in your life.

As November ushers in cooler temperatures and shorter days, many of us in Canada begin to feel the impact of seasonal changes on our...

World Mental Health Day is an opportunity for all of us to reflect on the importance of mental health care and to advocate for a more access

Discover how trauma can deeply affect sexual intimacy and identity. Learn how therapy can help individuals and couples heal and build health

Self-care strategies to support healing work are things that we can do in our everyday lives.

Whether you are a student, young adult, or starting your own family, here are some tips to help you build stronger, healthier relationships

If you are looking for mental health support, consider the benefits of working with a Markham psychotherapist who understands your community

Grief is a social emotion, and a transformative experience.

Finding an appropriate way to fully express anger can be a challenge when you have not learned how to do this growing up