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Spotting Communication Red Flags in Relationships — A Guide Inspired by Gottman’s Research
Poor communication is one of the most common reasons couples seek therapy. In this article, we explore the key "red flags" in communication, based on renowned psychologist Dr. John Gottman’s research, including the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. We’ll also share how couples therapy can help address these patterns and build stronger, healthier relationships. If you’re seeking couples therapy in Markham or Vaughan, our team at Your Story Counselling is here to help.

Your Story Counselling
Aug 18


What Is Attachment Theory & Therapy? Understanding Your Emotional Bonds and How Healing Happens
Attachment theory explains how our early relationships shape the way we connect with others as adults. Whether you struggle with trust, intimacy, or emotional regulation, understanding your attachment style can offer powerful insights. Therapy focused on attachment helps heal relational wounds and build healthier connections. At Your Story Counselling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy to support your unique attachment journey.

Your Story Counselling
Jul 28


Your Story Counselling Recognized Nationally for Excellence in Inclusive Mental Health Care
Your Story Counselling, a trauma-informed and culturally responsive psychotherapy clinic serving York Region and beyond, has been recognized on the national stage. Named a finalist in the 2024 RBC Canadian Women Entrepreneur Awards under the Micro-Business category, the clinic’s work in building accessible, affirming, and anti-oppressive mental health care is gaining long-overdue recognition. Learn how Your Story Counselling is changing how therapy is delivered—one story at a

Your Story Counselling
Jul 21


The Three Types of Sex: Understanding Intimacy, Connection, & Pleasure
Sex isn’t just about physical connection—with our bodies, partners, or identity, it's layered. This updated guide explores three types of sex—relational, passionate, and solo/experiential—to help you understand your own needs and patterns. Learn how to foster intimacy, keep excitement alive, and feel good in your own skin. Therapy-trained insights included.

Your Story Counselling
Jul 9


How to Find LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in York Region
Finding an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in York Region is essential for members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community seeking mental health care that is safe, inclusive, and culturally competent. This guide highlights how to find affirming clinicians, the values of Your Story Counselling’s anti-oppressive stance, and where to find community support through organizations like Rainbow Health Ontario, ACAS, AQUA, and Pflag York Region.

Your Story Counselling
Jul 7


ADHD in Relationships: When a Third Partner Is Invisible—but Powerful
When you're in a relationship, you're not just navigating the needs, emotions, and communication styles of two people—sometimes, there's a third invisible influence in the mix: ADHD.
Whether diagnosed or not, ADHD can play a powerful and often misunderstood role in intimate relationships. And when one or both partners are affected, it can feel like ADHD has pulled up a chair at the table, making itself part of every conversation, conflict, and connection.

Your Story Counselling
May 19


Conflict-Free Holidays: How to manage Family Dynamics with Grace
Navigate holiday stress with grace! Learn tips to manage family dynamics, set boundaries, and create meaningful connections this season.

Your Story Counselling
Dec 12, 2024


Heal Your Holiday Connections: How CBT and Attachment Theory Can Transform Your Relationships
Discover how CBT and attachment theory can deepen your relationships this holiday season. Build trust, heal bonds, and connect meaningfully.

Your Story Counselling
Dec 4, 2024


How to Improve your relationship: Understanding through Attachment Styles
Relationships are central to our well-being, but they can also be one of the most challenging aspects of our lives. Have you ever...

Your Story Counselling
Nov 19, 2024


Moving in: How to grow intimacy when living together
"Moving in? Keep the spark alive by communicating openly, balancing personal space, and adding romance to daily routines for a strong bond."

Your Story Counselling
Nov 13, 2024


How to Build a Better Relationship with your Immigrant Parents
Whether you are a student, young adult, or starting your own family, here are some tips to help you build stronger, healthier relationships

Your Story Counselling
Aug 6, 2024


Beyond Pride Month: Continuing the Legacy of LGBTQ2+ Celebration and Support
As June and Pride Month come to a close, it's essential to remember that celebrating and embracing the LGBTQ2+ community should extend far

Your Story Counselling
Jul 2, 2024


How to Find a Therapist: Your First-Time Guide
Feeling the need to talk to someone? Here's how to get started with therapy in Ontario.

Your Story Counselling
Jun 7, 2024


Cracking the Code: Understanding Stonewalling and Signs of a Toxic Relationship
Let's unpack what stonewalling is, how it may be linked to toxicity or narcissism, and most importantly

Your Story Counselling
Apr 1, 2024


Navigating Relationship Storms: Identifying and Tackling Communication Red Flags - Insights from John Gottman
Learn about Gottman therapy's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and its antidotes in this article!

Your Story Counselling
Feb 7, 2024


Navigating the Post-Winter Holiday Blues: Therapeutic Tips for Strengthening Mental Health
If you're seeking ways to navigate this challenging period and bolster your mental well-being, consider these therapeutic suggestions.

Your Story Counselling
Dec 22, 2023


Identifying Relationship Red Flags: A Guide to the Four Horsemen of Communication
This article aims to help you navigate the world of relationship red flags by delving into Dr. John Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalyps

Your Story Counselling
Oct 30, 2023
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